When looking for a dominant girlfriend, you should be lookin..

When looking for a dominant girlfriend, you should be looking very much in real life and on dating apps, and openly communicate your kinks. 🖤 When looking for a pro domme to do a real life session with, ensure they have their own website with prices clearly listed, have an established presence on some form of social media, and go to events and munches in your local community. You should also go to these events to get to know them in real time. 🖤 When looking for a pro domme online, you should ensure they are who they say they are. If they have an OF, or a clipstore, theyhave had to be verified that they are in fact that person. Once this is established, you should ensure that this domme has clear experience and knowledge of her responsibilities and the craft. I've recently had a "domme" message me asking if it was okay to financially abuse her subs to the point of actual ruin. She genuinely didn't know whether this was okay - just because someone calls themselves a domme, doesn't mean to say they know any more than you do about safe BDSM. If you ever acquire services from a domme, they should: - Establish safe words - Have a conversation with you about aftercare - Asking you about your kinks, at the very least hard limits, and ideally what your end goals are by the time your services come to an end. They should NOT: - Ask for personal identifiable information - Tell you there is no need for safewords - Be approaching you first outside of Onlyfans - I know it feels flattering, but unless your account shows you, then you are just a dot in a sea of submissive men. It's most probably a set up for a scam. - Make you do things you really don't want to do, and not in the good way. Please use the safeword more liberally, and see how a domme reacts! A domme must react reasonably to the save word. - Ask you for money because of personal troubles, like their car breaking down or their grandma being in hospital. We all have personal troubles, but this is likely a scam. Gotta stay safe, perverts🖤