Been taking a well deserved day to myself, and I think it’s ..
Added 2021-04-08 15:24:53 +0000 UTCBeen taking a well deserved day to myself, and I think it’s a good time for me to put a little reminder out there - kink is supposed to enhance your life, not be used to fuel mental health issues. The hardcore kinks we are into can sometimes make us feel like we are wrong, especially when it comes to people who have fetishes where the pleasure comes partly from humiliation and degradation, giving or receiving. There is nothing wrong with it, it makes life more exciting - we may not have chose our kinks, but I personally wouldn’t have mine any other way. In fact, being kinky is liberating! However, I’ve noticed a distinct difference in subs who use kink responsibly and for fun, and subs who use it as almost a method of self harm, to lower their self esteem. It’s the latter group who are often preyed on by people who aren’t even a part of the kink community, who just want to exploit them for their money. The power play, the superior-inferior dynamic, and the humiliation and degradation only have a place in safe and responsible kink and BDSM! If you feel less than others in your day to day life, it’s worth separating that feeling from kink and talking to your support network or a mental health professional. And a reminder to any of my customers who’ve bought videos or sessions or contracts from me, I offer aftercare free, no matter how long ago we worked together! Love you perverts🖤
